I don't know where to start from. Should i say "love and life" or should i say "love or life." This has been a thought going in my mind from many days. Some people think love and life are two lines of the same track. One is very much dependent on the other for smooth running of ur life. But at the same time people do contradict this. They say love and life are two different tracks,One should never cross over the other and if it does u know the consequences of it. I don't go with any of these statements but at the same time i don't say these thoughts are incorrect coz everyone have expressed their true thoughts through their personal experience.
Sometimes i feel pity about my friends who think they are good for nothing and the reason being they loved a girl who apparently did not agree to their proposal. Even quiet a few of u might have experienced it. So i open my discussion with few incidents.
INCIDENT 1
One guy usually opens his gmail and spends time reading the conversations he had with his girl friend in the recent past.It was kind of a hobby for him. For an instance say he really loves that girl. But common man!!!!!! his so called girl friend was already comitted to someone long back......Even after knowing that he continues doing the same. Sometimes i use to feel pity about him.When comin to his personal life this chap was an average student.Days and months passed by and after long time i heard that he was his college topper. I called him and congratulated him.i asked him the reason for this sudden change.He started saying "Might be i have wasted a lot of time thinking of that girl but now that i feel i have seen one extreme of my life i have the license to see the other extreme. Only thing i wanted to prove it to myself that i can be one among the best if i want to be.After a failure in love, i don't want to fail in my life. "
This is the point where i thought okay this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it's not all about commitment......It's just that little feeling which can even rise from burnt ashes and makes u do things which u never thought of doing( Truely in optimistic sense ). Failure in love is a definition which a person has to define to himself.love is just that relative term which changes from one person to other based on how u define it.U screw your life.......u waste your time...... it's all in your hands. Though my friend quoted saying he failed in love,i never go with his acceptance. He felt, he failed in love but the success coming out of his failure is what my definition of love which i define to myself. It's just like say u never see a baby learn how to walk without falling down and once he starts walking no one can stop him.
A life with a success which has a failure behind it always gives u more happiness. It Does not neccessarily mean u have to fail first and then succeed. it only means u should always keep ur doors open in search of a hope even in difficult phase of ur life. There is a nice quote saying " Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life "
Sometimes i feel pity about my friends who think they are good for nothing and the reason being they loved a girl who apparently did not agree to their proposal. Even quiet a few of u might have experienced it. So i open my discussion with few incidents.
INCIDENT 1
One guy usually opens his gmail and spends time reading the conversations he had with his girl friend in the recent past.It was kind of a hobby for him. For an instance say he really loves that girl. But common man!!!!!! his so called girl friend was already comitted to someone long back......Even after knowing that he continues doing the same. Sometimes i use to feel pity about him.When comin to his personal life this chap was an average student.Days and months passed by and after long time i heard that he was his college topper. I called him and congratulated him.i asked him the reason for this sudden change.He started saying "Might be i have wasted a lot of time thinking of that girl but now that i feel i have seen one extreme of my life i have the license to see the other extreme. Only thing i wanted to prove it to myself that i can be one among the best if i want to be.After a failure in love, i don't want to fail in my life. "
This is the point where i thought okay this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it's not all about commitment......It's just that little feeling which can even rise from burnt ashes and makes u do things which u never thought of doing( Truely in optimistic sense ). Failure in love is a definition which a person has to define to himself.love is just that relative term which changes from one person to other based on how u define it.U screw your life.......u waste your time...... it's all in your hands. Though my friend quoted saying he failed in love,i never go with his acceptance. He felt, he failed in love but the success coming out of his failure is what my definition of love which i define to myself. It's just like say u never see a baby learn how to walk without falling down and once he starts walking no one can stop him.
A life with a success which has a failure behind it always gives u more happiness. It Does not neccessarily mean u have to fail first and then succeed. it only means u should always keep ur doors open in search of a hope even in difficult phase of ur life. There is a nice quote saying " Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life "
